African American / Black History Month

February has brought me to a sticky moment here at Between These Pages.  This month is Black History Month.  Or African American History Month.  It all depends on who you reference.  In many places the terms black and African American are used interchangeably, but are they truly interchangeable?  It’s a question that’s particularly tricky for me to answer.  I want to be as respectful as possible.  I want to be as informed as possible.  But the fact is that as a white woman, I should never be the final arbiter of which word is more sensitive or appropriate.

From what I’ve read (and we’re talking internet googling here, not grad level research work so please forgive and feel free to explain anything I am depicting inaccurately or explaining inadequately) – the issue at hand is this:  African-American refers to a specific heritage, coming from Africa, most likely through the slave system.  While some feel African-American can and does include newly immigrated Africans, others believe that newly immigrated Africans will self-identify by their country of origin (Nigerian or Kenyan for example).  Furthermore, the term African-American seems to be exclusionary; there are people of African heritage elsewhere in the world (besides Africa)!  Finally, many people from the Caribbean islands (Jamaica, Haiti, etc.) identify themselves with the heritage and history and struggles unique to their island even if they are currently also American.

Black, on the other hand refers to skin color, completely omitting the question of heritage.  In some ways it is more inclusive, allowing for people of mixed background to self-identify as black as well as removing the continent of origin.  But it also defines a person solely by the color of their skin, when we all know that there are a myriad of skin tones regardless of race.

So over the course of this month, while I review books, I’ll do my best to define heritage, and I’ll be using the tags black and Af-Am to try to be inclusive.  Please feel free to offer your (respectful) opinions on terminology.  I certainly do not consider myself the authority on this.

On another note, WOW my class knows next to nothing about African American history.  We’re going to have to work on that.  I was really quite appalled this morning when so many of them couldn’t say a single thing about this important part of our country’s history.

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Understood Betsy

I loved this book as a child, I’ve read it countless times.  Little Elizabeth Ann has been raised by her dear Aunts in the city.  She is a frail little thing who is prone to tears and easily frightened.  When her Aunts become too sickly to care for her, she must be sent off to live with the only relatives who will take her, the dreaded Putney cousins in Vermont.

There in Vermont, Elizabeth Ann goes through an amazing transformation.  Cared for by no-nonsense New Englanders whose methods could not be more opposite than the fluttery city Aunts, Betsy becomes independent, confident and strong.  In short, she thrives.  In both places, she was very much loved.  But it is clear that the Putney cousins have the upper hand when it comes to effective child-rearing techniques.  This is not by accident.

The author, Dorothy Canfield Fisher, is no everyday children’s author.  She’s an educational reformer who played a large part in bringing the Montessori method to America and a noted social activist.  Eleanor Roosevelt named her as one of the ten most influential women in America and it is no wonder.  It’s amazing to see how she has created a story that absolutely is capable of captivating children but also carries such an important message for their caregivers.

So much of what Fisher was advocating in the early 1900s (Understood Betsy was originally published in 1916) is very much in keeping with the latest recommendations in education.

While Betsy is with her city Aunts she is fussed and fretted over constantly.  Her aunt Frances desperately wants to be privy to all parts of Elizabeth Ann’s young soul, encouraging her to share every dream, every worry (to the point where Elizabeth Ann is sometimes even fabricating awfulness so as not to be a disappointment to her dear, dear Aunt).  She is helped over every difficulty before she even has an opportunity to know that it is a difficulty.  At school she is struggling with Math yet bored because she is too far ahead in Reading.  Nothing from school has any real world significance to her.

But on the Putney farm, Betsy is left to learn experientially.  She is allowed to make mistakes and learn from them.  She encounters real life history lessons that make the Declaration of Independence relevant.  Making butter with her aunt, Betsy discovers that pounds and ounces are not the creation of an evil Math professor but something useful in her actual life. The one room school she attends allows for differentiated instruction, so that Betsy may read a seventh grade reader, but practice her math skills with the second grade.  Betsy develops confidence and pride because she is able to accomplish so much independently.

Fisher’s message is clear.  Elizabeth Ann/Betsy is beloved in both of her homes, but when she was being coddled and protected from all of life’s ups and downs she was done no favors.  And in allowing Betsy to take responsibility, do things by herself and sometimes even make mistakes the Putneys have helped her become a much happier, healthier version of herself.

On a side note, I would also like to state for the record that this book is entirely without butterflies and pens. Whoever made the decision to slap a generic “girly” cover on a work of this appeal and social significance is an idiot.

Great for: Subtle indoctrination.  Want your kids to feel grateful for their chores, responsibilities and independence?  Let them compare Elizabeth Ann to Betsy and see who comes out the winner.  Then challenge them to think about why.

One Awkward Moment: One subplot that always left me a bit miffed – there’s a little boy who is much neglected by his alcoholic stepfather.  The neighbors decide that perhaps he should be adopted by a kinder, wealthier man.  They make him some new clothes and get him cleaned up.  His stepfather sells the clothes for alcohol, but thankfully little ‘Lias is rescued anyway.  For me the question of adoption was a bit glossed over, perhaps because ‘Lias was in the care of a stepparent?  I may be bringing my modern day sensibilities to this (Shouldn’t social services be consulted?  Is the stepfather the legal guardian?). The subplot does raise a lot of important issues relating to charity and charitable behavior.

Sex, Nudity, Dating – None.
Profanity – “You gump,” “darned,” used twice.
Death, Violence and Gore – None.
Drugs, Alcohol and Smoking – Little ‘Lias’s father drinks heavily.
Frightening or Intense Things – Elizabeth Ann is an orphan. Elizabeth Ann has terrible dreams about Indians scalping her or falling from a school window and being broken to bits. Sometimes she dreams of lying in a little white coffin.  Aunt Harriet is quite ill and must move to a warm climate immediately.  There is scarlet fever and a quarantine.  She rides in a wagon and is terrified she’ll be crushed beneath the wheels.  Molly’s mother takes ill and must be sent away. ‘Lias’s mother is dead.

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The Crystal Tree

This is the final installment in the Golden Name Day series.  Nancy is counting down the time until she is reunited with her family.  It’s difficult waiting, but Grandma tells all the girls not to wish their lives away, and instead (as you can expect with these practical folk) they fill their days busily and happily.

The girls continue to work on the mystery of the Little Silver House, employing valuable advice to talk to everyone about it, not just people they think will know something.  In the process they make even more friends (of all ages) and pick up new traditions

One of the things that touched me the most is making a memory quilt.  I had a dear friend in high school whose mother actually did this for each of her children.  She kept bits of fabric from clothes they’d owned and she’d owned as well as fabrics from the house.  She pieced them together and for each child their going away to college gift was one of these quilts.  It’s something I would love to do one day.  You know, if I actually had children, or was remotely crafty.

Disabilities – the bad: Alex is referred to as “lame” which is a term that I believe has fallen out of favor.

Disabilities – the better: – As with the other two books in the series,  Alex, a boy in a wheelchair, is a main character.  In this book he has an operation on his back.  The proposed best case outcome is that he would be strong enough to move himself between the wheelchair and his bed using crutches.  I can’t say enough how pleased I am that Lindquist doesn’t go for some type of magical healing surgery that will allow him to walk.  The surgery would afford Alex more independence as he grows older but doesn’t give children some unrealistic pie-in-the-sky happy resolution to his physical condition.  Another big plus, at the end of the book Alex’s home situation is arranged so that he’ll be able to start attending public school rather than needing to be home schooled.  The girls are thrilled for their friend.

Also in their efforts to learn more about the little silver house, the girls learn that the child that died had been blind for a period before her death.  Upon her death her father donated a great deal of money to a hospital to help children who have vision problems.  The title crystal tree refers to something the little girl made by stringing beads after she lost her sight due to illness.

Sex, Nudity, Dating – A cat is having kittens and the girls protest she is too young.  Aunt Martha has to point out that cats grow up faster than people.
Profanity – None.
Death, Violence and Gore – We learn more about the little girl who died when she was 10.  Ben’s parents died when he was small.  Since the girls are researching history there’s a fair amount about people having died.
Drugs, Alcohol and Smoking – None.
Frightening or Intense Things – Mr. Cross gets quite sick.  Alex must have an operation and it is serious, there is a risk of death.

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The Little Silver House

I didn’t even know this sequel to The Golden Name Day existed until I was an adult, so I’m fudging a bit when I call it a childhood favorite, but really, it’s a necessary follow up to The Golden Name Day, and required reading in your Swedish indoctrination course.

As winter comes, so does Christmas, and after reading this I’m willing to believe that there isn’t one better than a Swedish Christmas. The special visits throughout Advent, the carefully wrapped karameller, Grandma in her lighted Lucia wreath, Dipping Day, count me in. Everything except the lutfisk. I’m afraid I’m with the children on that one.

But before we get to the delight of the holidays, Nancy and her friends have many adventures. They discover a little silver house that has been boarded up for 30 years and they long to know its secrets, their hunt for information has all sorts of surprises for them. And again the characters in this book set a new standard for what friendship really means. Alex is still in his wheelchair, but is very much a part of all adventures. The crowd meets a new boy Ben who is lonesome for his life in the city. They make him feel welcome, but the true measure of their kindness comes when they put together a Christmas box for Ben’s friend Dick. Dick can’t walk either, but unlike Alex can’t afford a wheelchair. The children are not wealthy so in order to get Dick a present, they decide to part with much loved belongings of their own. The decision about what to send weighs heavily on some of the girls, but in the end they are all very generous. I think what impressed me most was that the gift was enough for them. None of their treasures were replaced when they received their own gifts. What they gave up for Dick was truly out of the goodness of their hearts, which is something that is often lost nowadays.

Sex, Nudity, Dating – None.
Profanity – None.
Death, Violence and Gore – Alex’s father died when he was a baby.  As they are trying to solve a mystery, the girls discover that another little girl died at age 10.  There’s a weird bit where Elsa said she’s glad the girl died at 10.
Drugs, Alcohol and Smoking – None.
Frightening or Intense Things – A fire closes the school for two weeks.  Ben had lived with his grandmother but then she had to go live in a home and he was sent off to be a hired boy.  The Taylors aren’t well. Ben has a friend named Dick who also can’t walk like Alex except without a wheelchair or people to check on him.

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The Golden Name Day

My first teaching position was at a school without a librarian.  My students and I would browse the bookshelves together searching for treasure.  When I spied The Golden Name Day I pressed it into the nearest set of waiting hands.  It was checked out by each girl in my class in turn, constantly, until they’d all read it.  It’s incredibly hard to find.  Used copies are available but expensive.  Even huge public library systems like New York and Philadelphia have their copies tucked away as Children’s Reference or Library Use Only.  In fact, the only thing that might be harder to find are the two other books in the series The Little Silver House and The Crystal Tree.

It’s really a shame that a Newbury Honor book should be so forgotten, because this is a story filled with lasting truths: that family is more than just your blood relatives; that friends can ease your heart at the most difficult of times; that the beauty of nature can bring great joy; that friends come in all different packages; that reaching out to others keeps us from our own self-pity; that sharing traditions is part of creating a true home and that Sweden is the best place to come from in the whole world.

Okay fine, maybe that final one isn’t a lasting truth, but it’s pretty hard to read this and NOT want to be Swedish.  When Nancy’s mother becomes ill, Nancy is sent to New Hampshire to live with her Swedish almost-grandparents (the Bensons).  She is soon captivated by their Swedish traditions and longs for a Name Day of her own.  But Nancy is not a Swedish name (just as Nancy is not a Swedish girl) so it is up to her new friends and family (including Aunt Anna’s daughters, Sigrid, Helga and Elsa) to try to find a way for Nancy to have her heart’s desire.

The Small Bits that Make this Special Nancy’s friend Alex is in a wheelchair. At first I worried that it would be handled in a patronizing way, but Alex is an important character and a great friend.

It’s hard for Nancy to be separated from her family, and at one point the Bensons actually discuss taking her to a doctor for her low mood, although they say they’re not sure what the doctor could do to help. I found it interesting to see anything even remotely related to the treatment of depression in a book from this era.

Slightly random but fascinating, both Elsa and Nancy are said to see words as colors. This is an actual phenomenon called synesthesia. Come on, how many authors do you know who can throw stuff like this in without it being weird?

Sex, Nudity, Dating – None.
Profanity – None.
Death, Violence and Gore – When trying to tell Nancy that things aren’t so bad, Grandma reminds her that her cousins’ father died and the youngest doesn’t even remember him anymore.
Drugs, Alcohol and Smoking – None.
Frightening or Intense Things – Nancy is sent away to live because her mother is very sick.  Her mother is going to a hospital for a year.

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What Do You Do With a Kangaroo? – MUST HAVE Picture Book

“What do you do with a Kangaroo?…You throw him out, that’s what you do!  Get out of my bed you Kangaroo!” 

This is an absolute must have picture book. A spunky girl’s day begins when she finds a demanding kangaroo in her bed. She drags him out by the tail only to find an opossum using her toothbrush and complaining about her toothpaste. As her day goes on, she faces a blue jean stealing llama, a finger bowl demanding raccoon, a moose who would like to be washed in apricot juice and many other entitled beasts. Each one must be removed by the determined girl. And she is no sissy. Oh no, she does not even wince as she shoves a Bengal tiger from her tricycle. Mercer Meyer’s illustrations are a treat, especially the final page, where you learn what happens when you can’t throw them out – in a scene many parents will find familiar, the little girl lies in her bed positively covered in animals. (Ahem. It’s possible this is why I was given this book. I don’t believe there was ever a final count on how many stuffed animals I could get in the bed.)

Great for: Children who want to boss around misbehaved animals. Think you’ll poke your eyes out with one more reading of Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus!? Never fear, our tough little heroine will give you a break. The vocabulary is much more sophisticated than the Pigeon series, so What Do You Do With A Kangaroo? will grow well with your readers. Little ones will simply like telling the animals to get out, while older listeners will be entertained by the animals’ wild demands.

Sex, Nudity, Dating – There is a small curve of butt-cheek exposed as our heroine battles a bathtub draining camel wearing naught but a towel and shower cap.
Profanity – None.
Death, Violence and Gore – I’m afraid animals are pushed, pulled, shoved, hoisted and lowered, poked and prodded.  But they deserved it.  Especially that tiger who threatened to eat her.
Drugs, Alcohol and Smoking – None.
Frightening or Intense Things – None.

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It’s So Nice to Have a Wolf Around the House

All children have their bogeymen and things that go bump in the night. Mine was a woof that lived in my closet (I couldn’t say the “l” in wolf until sometime after high school. Shut up, it’s endearing.) . An animated, standing on his hind legs, Big Bad type. Luckily he could be managed by simply making sure the closet door was firmly shut at night. Sometime after their one millionth door check my parents decided to take literary action. They turned to the winning team of Harry Allard and James Marshall (Miss Nelson Is Missing!). Here was a story guaranteed to get me over my irrational fear of make-believe wolves.

An old man and his three even more elderly pets are sadly lacking in pep.  They place an advertisement for a charming companion.  The respondant (in a beige trenchcoat and matching spats) is a furry stranger by the name of Cuthbert Q. Devine.  Cuthbert claims to be a German Shepherd despite various clues that point to his being a wolf.  The old man and pets are completely taken in.  They find that Cuthbert Devine is indeed a divine companion.  He cooks, he cleans, he pays the bills, he grooms the cat and walks the dog, he organizes fancy dress costume parties. (If anyone knows where I can find one of these, write immediately and no mom, I don’t want the one who’s living in my old closet, that one stays there with you, he’s evil I tell you!)  They are blissful together until Cuthbert’s checkered past as a bank robber and scoundrel is revealed. Never fear, the story ends happily, with all five of our friends living in Arizona (to this day!!)  I can’t say as it was the cure for my woofaphobia, but It’s Nice to Have a Wolf Around the House certainly was the star of many bedtime reading sessions.

Great for: Lessons on schema change.  If you want to teach children about how books change their perceptions have them tell you all the things they know about (storybook) wolves, and then discuss how Cuthbert changed their opinions!

Sex, Nudity, Dating – Cuthbert is clothed but other animals are not.  Because they’re animals, not charming companions.
Profanity – None.
Death, Violence and Gore – Cuthbert used to rob banks, although there is no indication that he ever hurt anyone while doing this.
Drugs, Alcohol and Smoking – Cuthbert hooks the cat on catnip.
Frightening or Intense Things – A character suffers a nervous breakdown.

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The Tale of Mrs. Tiggy-Winkle

I cannot possibly give you an explanation for why I was so incredibly attached to the story of a hedgehog leading a secret life as a washerwoman. I’m honestly a bit concerned about what that might say about me as a person. But unarguably, undeniably, The Tale of Mrs. Tiggy-Winkle was my favorite Beatrix Potter story. It also may have laid the groundwork for my lifelong partiality towards hedgehogs, but we needn’t discuss that.

There’s just something reassuring and charming about this little hedgehog who washes the clothes for all the animals.  This is especially true because the animals’ laundry is comprised of things people would also wear, like Peter Rabbit’s small blue jacket, but also things that require a bit of imagination like the yellow chicken-toed stockings that belong to Sally Henny-penny or the woolly coats belonging to little lambs.

The illustrations are darling and I highly endorse the small pocket-sized version of this book.  It’s the perfect size for small hands and just seems suited to the story.  Do you have a favorite Beatrix Potter story?  Tell us in the comments!

Sex, Nudity, Dating – Get through saying “Cock Robin” and “Tom Titmouse” without snickering and you’re home free.
Profanity – None.
Death, Violence and Gore – None.
Drugs, Alcohol and Smoking – There is a currant wine stain in a tablecloth belonging to Jenny Wren.  That lush.
Frightening or Intense Things – None.

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Betsy’s Wedding

Sometimes, an author should know when to call it a day.  Sometimes, you stop the story before the end.  This is one of those final books in a series where you sort of wish you hadn’t gone this far.  But maybe Maud Hart Lovelace really wanted to write this one because it’s the only one where Joe was legitimate.  You see, the Betsy books are based on her life, with one great exception.  She didn’t meet her husband, Delos, until much later.  So she made a character that would be like her husband as a young man and dropped him into Deep Valley High as Joe Willard.  But for this book she doesn’t need to imagine anymore.  Joe now is Delos and Delos, Joe.  I actually sense a slight shift in character between this book and the prior ones (I can’t quite get my head around Joe Willard calling someone “Honey” every thirty seconds), but it seems this is why.

I’ve read this one three times now, and each time it’s like reading it for the first time.  It stays with me that little.  Oh, your favorite characters are back, Tacy and Tib, Carney and Cab, Julia, newly grown-up Margaret, but it just feels odd.  On the upside, the beginning of this is thorough enough that you can skip Betsy and the Great World if you like, because it fills you in completely.

And the warning that women’s lib was falling?  Oh, it has fallen.  I winced as Betsy declared that someone should have the last word in a family and that she always wants that person to be Joe, always.  And we hear again and again about his job, his writing, his promise as an author.  When Betsy’s offered a job of her own, does she take it? Oh no, she declares “I already have a job…it’s important and very hard.  It’s learning how to keep house.”  Even darling, tough Tib has a romance with a man that’s an absolute steam-roller.  He decides what they do (nothing Tib likes), who they see, everything.  Others declare that maybe that’s just what Tib needs, a masterful man.  Luckily she escapes him in the end, but the relationship seemed borderline abusive to me.  If you’ve been handing your daughter Betsy books to show her that she can follow her dreams, hide this one.  Hide it well.

Sex, Nudity, Dating – kissing, proposals (or not quite proposals!)- there’s to be a wedding you know! Various characters are pregnant and have babies.  Joe likes to think of Betsy in her negligee.  She climbs into bed and lays in his arms.
Profanity – “Jakes” which I’ve read described as “a profane exclamation of surprise”. “Lieber Gott,” which translates to Good God.
Death, Violence and Gore – Uncle Alvin dies.  Aunt Ruth talks about her past, including her only child who was stillborn.  Aunt Ruth also has a fondness for disasters and tragedies.  There’s a war on, so there’s talk of poison gas, the boys in the trenches and U-Boats sinking ships.  Joe jokes that he’ll beat Betsy if she ruins another meat pie.
Drugs, Alcohol and Smoking – A bit more pipe smoking, including a character who says he started when he was four.  A man calls Tib his opium.
Frightening or Intense Things –There’s a war on.  At the end several characters have joined the army and will be sent to war.  That’s where things leave off.  Men sent away to war.

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